As I've said in my previous entry, I will find a date on the 6th. But it turned out to be his mother haha!
Early morning around 8, I received a text from him and it was followed by a text from his mother asking me to meet her. I did not reply to his, but I took considerations to his mothers. I asked my family about what I should do, although I really want to see his mother. Clear everything once and for all.
I was happy that I did, even though my father was really against it, but he conceded anyways. They just told me to do what is right.
I went to his mothers school. When I saw her, I hugged her, a thing I don't usually do, not because I don't want to, but because it is not my character to hug another human being. Well he was an exception, always. But when I saw his mother, I felt a familiar feeling, so in the end I did not fought the urge to hug her, and it felt good.
She smiled and looked for a seat, actually there were plenty, it's a classroom after all. We sat in the nearest desk, and without any delays, she asked me what happened. Like yes, the break up. They were shocked with his husband, "me too" I told her. But it happened anyways. I told her what constituted it, not actually mentioning the girl, just also the part where I was soo bad and that he was soo stressed out already. I don't know anything anymore. When her mother told me that there is a girl, I just said yes, I know, but he never really confessed, even after they were seen by my workmate. But that was that, I do not care anymore what really happened. His mother asked me where he met that girl, I don't hell know.
I assured his mom that he is good, really good, and that the girl is like him so they would make a good couple. And I also told her that, there are no chances of us getting back, that was the right thing to do. So I will do it.
Remember when you see a movie and you tell the protagonist, don't give up, that's what his mother told me. But I already did, I gave up. Her mother told me a story about the sister-in-law of his sister, that they also broke up with his boyfriend and went out to date someone else, but at the end, they were really meant for each other, they married.
At that moment, I did not really care, I did not see the point of us getting together either. All I know is that I give up. I tried, damn tried, with all the energy and love left in me. But i failed. This might be a retaliation but it is a good one. It made me see everything, appreciate everything, and believe in everything. So I will believe in God, for at all times, he knows what we truly want and need. And this time, I may not need that broken arms to hold me. I may not need that familiar stare to watch me, I may not need him. And I will be happy.
I accompanied his mother to their house, I haven't been there for like almost a month or less, his father was there, so is his brother. It felt awkwardly good. Her mother changed clothes and we went to our next stop and went back to their house. Had a snack and went to sleep, I slept in the couch, where he sleeps, it felt good haha. We went to church after, then his mother accompanied me, up to my stop, home. I was shocked but I was happy. And I really am thankful that I came and talked to her.
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for all my guiding stars.
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